January 7, 2010
I have returned home this week because my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer. The whole process has been hard on both my mother and our family. Learning that you or a loved one has cancer is a nightmare. Cancer is a six-letter word you fear your whole life and never imagine it happening to you or someone you love.
The tumor is very large and fast growing so needs to be shrunk before it can be removed. She begins chemo on Monday, which will last 4 months. She will then undergo a mastectomy, a procedure to remove her breast, after the treatment.
My mom has agreed to a private documentary where I will record her battle with cancer through digital and b&w film photography. I am documenting my mother’s life throughout her fight against cancer. The images will capture the beauty and strength of my mother through her faith, love, and humor; all the weapons she is arming herself with to conquer cancer. A few weeks ago we were celebrating Christmas, now we are celebrating life, love, and family. If I post any photographs from this series it will be with her consent. She is in total control of these photographs, which is why the documentary is private.
My mom is truly one of the most wonderful people in the world. She is full of laughter and love. Her faith in God has already made her see the good in her frightful situation. She is a blessing to all her friends and family because of the joy her she exudes. She is my best friend and the backbone to our family. It pains me to know what lies ahead of her, but I know she will beat breast cancer just as millions of other women around the world have as well. We have begun the fight with cancer so please keep her in your prayers.
Ansley, my prayers are with you and your family – may you have strength and peace through the upcoming months.
Thank you so much for your prayers, they are greatly appreciated. We are trying our best to have strength, peace, and humor. Hope all is well with your family.